For such a time as this--part 1

I'm sick of people. i mean not even certain people, just the way some people act in general. like this: you try to sayhey to someone and they just sit there and give one word responses to everything you throw at them....its like hello if you dont want to talk just say so--i wont cry or anything, but dont be a bastard and just sit there and not sayin anything either, i'm a BIG girl, i can handle it ok? people are just so lazy sometimes it amazes me, not that i cant be too, but not like that.

one of my friends is have serious faith struggles and i dont know how to help them. like they say, "oh i dont want to talk about it" yet they bring up stuff in conversation of a christian nature--now is it just me, or will that not lead to a faith based discussion...yes i thought so. its like yeah if you dont want my help say so, but dontjust sit there and resent me for being the friend i am to you, when all i'm doing is showing that i care enough to bother with your moodiness and bad attitude toward EVERYTHING. i mean i'll say something, anything and they have to cme up with some way to contradict me or find a way to prove me wrong...whats that all about? i'm not hurting you--i'm trying to help you. dont want me to? F*CKING just tell me that and i WON'T EVER AGAIN...do we understand this? it just kills me because its a very close friend of mine and i cant even TALK to this person without fighting anymore...they';ve changed radically in mind and attitude and i HATE every minute of it...i dont know what to do, if anything...